It's sad to see how many people don't question themselves why they believe what they do, or if those believes are a valid platform to stand on.
Many just accept what is told to them, without really analyzing what's is told to them. Some won't see the contradictions on the information given to them, because they don't bother to actually pay attention. It seems that they don't want to take the responsibility and face the consequences of their own actions.
Some seem to have the need to be told what to believe, and how to act.
It's important to understand that what's good for some doesn't make it so for others. The idea that something will work for us, just because it works for someone we know is not true. Yes, we should consider several paths before one is chosen. But, at the end each of us needs to choose what is best for us as an individual.
More often than not, it's hard to be completely certain if what was chosen will work out the way it was intended to do. If it does, that's great. If it doesn't, don't blame others.
Learn from what happened, and move on. The blaming game is not really useful, since most of the time it doesn't help anyone to move on with life.
As humans, we are fallible. We make mistakes, but we can overcome them to make things right.
At the end, do what's right for you to the best of your abilities. Remember that you are the one you must answer to at the end of each day. You're the one who must feel comfortable on your own skin, and live your life the way you believe is the best way to do so.
Give yourself more credit.
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