Feelings

I'm quite angry at how sometimes it's to easy for women to shield themselves behind the idea that they are supposed to know better about feelings.

I have come to really dislike it when a girls says to a man that she doesn't want to meet and talk in person because she doesn't want to hurt his feelings, saying that she knows better. That's a big fat lie, she doesn't want to meet in order to protect herself and her feelings. What the man feels, or wants for that matter, is totally irrelevant for her.

But, the man must understand and be thankful that she is having his feelings at heart when she says so.

And to make things worse, if the man says this he is labelled as jerk, that just doesn't want to face her or his own feelings. That somehow, he just used her for his own wicked ends.

It seems that every time I question this, the girls seem more eager to avoid or simply dismiss this. It seems that they are somehow exempt from having to face any emotional consequences, even though she was the one who wanted to talk about it in the first place.

Why don't they just act as they want us men to act, and face us even when it hurts.